Does anyone know kentucky divorce rates stats from 2000-09?
January 28, 2010 by Divorce Bin
Filed under divorce stats
I found some information online but not alot. Its for a class presentation and kentucky is one of the harder states to get information on.
Find a state with relatively the same population as Ky. and use that !!
One of the commonest causes of divorce and litigation is PERSONALITY DISORDER.
Just ONE of the partners may be a PD. It is a MYTH that it takes Two people to go for litigation.
10% of the general population and 70% of jail inmates have one of the ten known types of PERSONALITY DISORDER!
I request all to read about PERSONALITY DISORDERS from the website : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder . We are MOSTLY dealing with mental health disorders!
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Probably the most prevalent personality disorder in family court is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Also common is Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) more often seen in men.
Try to find out what type of PD your ex-wife is -use the help of wikipedia.com for this. Counsellors may not tell you, because of inherent difficulties in identifying PDs and because of living in denial, that women can be a PD!
HOW WILL THIS KNOWLEDGE HELP YOU?
Remember that a Personality Disorder will try to negotiate and deal with you, feeling her chances of manipulating and intimidating you are better than her chances of manipulating your lawyer or the court system. For this reason, refer all her comments and questions to your lawyer’.
Be prepared for a variety of strategies that will change quickly until she finds one that works. She may use apologies, pleas, intimidations, threats, guilt, faked disorders/ailments, accusations, etc. As a Personality Disorder, her only goal is to bend the situation to her benefit. A common strategy used by PDs is to attempt negotiations and meetings outside the court setting, those I m sure we can work this out at meetings. Those are always intimidation-oriented meetings. Never agree to them. If your lawyer appears uninformed regarding personality disorders, you might ask for a consultation with another lawyer or a mental health professional.
Personality Disorders have a sense of narcissistic pride that is threatened in a court situation. For this reason, they feel entitled to punish you, even after the court situation is over. Be cautious with any post-court deals where she will help in the future (share child expenses, agreements to pay for something, etc.), as those deals actually offer her an opportunity to torment you for years in the future.http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Impossible-People
Judges, lawyers, and family court counselors need to be trained in identifying personality disorders and how to treat them. Mostly, a corrective on-going relationship is needed — preferably with a counselor. However, they usually must be ordered into this because their belief systems include a life-time of denial and avoidance of self-reflection.
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